Signs It May Be Time for Assisted Living
Many families wonder how to tell when living alone is no longer working. There is no single test. This guide lists common signs to watch for and what to do next. It is general information, not medical advice.
Changes in daily routines
- Missed or doubled medications
- Skipped meals, spoiled food or little food in the house
- Difficulty with bathing, dressing or grooming
- A home that is becoming unsafe or hard to keep up
Safety concerns
- Falls, near-falls or new bruises
- Getting lost or confused on familiar routes
- Unpaid bills or mail piling up
- Leaving the stove or doors unattended
Changes for the caregiver
A family caregiver who is exhausted, missing work or neglecting their own health is also a sign. Respite care or home help may be a first step before a move.
Loneliness and mood
Withdrawing from friends and activities can be a reason to look at communities with social programs, even when physical care needs are small.
What to do next
- Talk with the person's doctor about what support they need.
- Ask communities for their own care assessment.
- Compare home care, assisted living and other options for the level of help needed.
- Visit in person and ask the questions on our tour guide.
Next step
If you are unsure which level of care fits, an advisor can talk through the situation by phone and shortlist communities. HavenLine is a referral service and does not provide medical advice.
Questions
Who decides if someone needs assisted living?
Usually the person, their family and their doctor decide together, and a community will do its own assessment before move-in.
Is forgetfulness always a reason to move?
Not always. A doctor can help tell normal changes from something that needs attention.
General information only, not financial, legal or insurance advice. Rules, prices and benefits vary by state and by policy. A licensed professional can explain what applies to you.